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Should I Start a Family?

                I think it is kind of hard to overstate the importance that a father has in his kids’ lives. If we look in the scriptures, fathers were essential even from the very beginning. Throughout time society’s view of a father has changed, but God’s plan and expectations for a father has always been the same. In class this week we talked quite a bit about fathers, as well as some of the blessings we see in our lives of having families. Today I am going to talk about the role of fathers, as well as some of these blessings.                 In the proclamation to the family, it talks about how a father’s main role is to provide for his family. When some people hear this, they strictly think about financially. This is definitely not the case. Yes he should provide for his family in that way, but he should also provide emotionally, ...

Parenting

            It is a sad thing to see, but in today’s society being a parent is just not the priority that it once was. People are more worried about traveling the world, having careers, or other things that kids might get in the way of. Everyone just puts it off, and says that they might have kids later, and they might not. Sadly, when they have this mentality a lot of the time it never ends up happening. When this happens, they miss out of the amazing experience that it is to have children, and that family unit. In class this week we talked about some of the benefits of being a parent, and I am going to focus on a couple of them for this post.             Learning to problem solve. I don’t think that there is a single parent in all of history that would tell you that parenting is easy. It doesn’t come with a how-to guide, you have experiences t...

Trials

            Anyone that has ever seen a Hallmark movie in their lifetime knows that there is always a happy ending, and that life seems to always be easy and perfect for those families. But those of us that actually live in the real world know that that is just simply not the case. Things don’t always have a happy ending, and life isn’t always as easy or as fair as we think it should be. There are things that are thrown at us at any given time, and we don’t know why. In these moments, it’s important that we have someone, or something that we can turn to for comfort. A lot of the time that support group is our family. They are some of the people you love most, and they will always have your back. But what do you do in times when it is actually your family that hurt you, or is causing you the stress? Sometimes stresses and trails we face in our families are the toughest to go through. It is crucial that we don’t all...